Which women do men like the most? What kind of women do men love most? Why do some women not like men?
2. Love for a man begins with self-love
Usually we think the other way around: “When someone loves me, then I will love myself.” But until a Woman has an affair with herself, every man will be just a psychotherapist for her, trying to cure her of self-rejection and fear of being alone. True, deep love arises from a state of being full of oneself. Then love for a man will be born in its highest manifestation - as a gift of oneself to him, and not as a desperate attempt to be needed by someone in order to feel one’s own usefulness.3. A man loves not the Woman herself, but his condition next to her
A woman who creates a special state in men - masculine - will always have success and admirers. A man will be drawn to this special state like a magnet. Real woman cultivates femininity in herself in order to bestow it on men (lover, admirers, friends, acquaintances, just passers-by). Therefore, a Real Woman is not the most beautiful, not the smartest, and certainly not the most successful socially. A real Woman gives a man not intelligence, not beauty, not body, not success, but fortune.4. The desire to love is born within
As a rule, it has nothing to do with whether there are objects worthy of this in the environment of a Real Woman. When a woman thinks that “there is no one to choose from” and that there are no men around her worthy of her love, this may indicate that she is not yet ready to love. She wants something different. She may be afraid to love. And those “unworthy” men who are around only reflect her internal state. As soon as a woman matures into true deep love, the question “worthy or not worthy” ceases to be of paramount importance.5. A woman’s generosity to love attracts love to her
If a woman wants to be loved, she must be able to saturate everything she comes into contact with with love. Give it, enjoy it, manifest it, think and talk about it. Love should be an inhalation and an exhalation, not just an inhalation. If you breathe out love, it will find you naturally.6. Men are Gods
Every man is God. Exactly. If he doesn't give you the impression of God, then you are "seeing through the eyes" of the critical mind. God can be manifested in him only one percent. In his life, he has not yet met such a Woman who would inspire him to believe in himself. A real Woman sees Gods in men. A real Woman does not compete with men and does not prove to them her perfection. She does not remake them and does not educate them. She sees the best in each of them. A real Woman loves, appreciates and respects men IN GENERAL, as a class. This position creates space in her life for interesting and worthy men.7. To charm men, a woman herself must be charmed
If a Woman wants to inspire men, she herself must be in a state of inspiration. If a woman wants to ignite them, she herself must be a small flame. A Woman’s “fascination” is her love for Life, for her little secrets, romance and mystery. It doesn't matter what the Woman is fascinated by. “Enchantment” creates an inner light that cannot help but be felt.8. Next to a Real Woman there is always room for heroism
She creates it. A woman arouses in a man the desire to prove himself strong, without imposing on him the duties of “you must,” but gently inviting him into the fairy tale “Hero and Princess.” She creates the illusion of touching defenselessness and vulnerability, awakening in a man the desire to commit actions that will result in her enthusiastic eyes and admiration for him. A real Woman prepares a man to commit actions gradually and imperceptibly, without doing anything for this, simply being in the image of a tender, fragile young lady.9. A Real Woman Doesn't Participate in Feminist Women's Clubs
A real Woman will not make generalizations like “They all…”. She knows that all men are different. Each woman creates her own Universe, and she is surrounded by the men she attracts into her life. She will not fan the fire of gender war and revel in the imperfections of the universe. When talking with her friends about her man, she will not focus on his shortcomings, criticize and devalue him, making him appear unworthy.10. A real Woman knows how to say even unpleasant things correctly and kindly
She tells them to men in a way that does not humiliate them, but pushes them to change for the better. This is a great feminine art - to be friendly even when it is necessary to talk about shortcomings and mistakes. It is not what a Woman says that matters, but how she says it. She speaks while maintaining her self-esteem and the dignity of the person to whom she speaks. She knows that even criticism can be presented in such a way that it inspires heroism. However, she always leaves the man the opportunity to choose: to change or not.Bitches
A bitch is a selfish and absolutely narcissistic person who, without hesitation, will go over her head to make her desires come true. As soon as she becomes interested in any man, she immediately uses all her feminine cunning and belligerence. She is akin to the Amazons and always achieves her goal by any means necessary. Nothing can stop him on the way to his desired goal: neither a man’s refusal, nor his marital status and the presence of children.
The main weapon of a Bitch woman is her grooming and beauty. They understand this and openly use their trump card to the fullest in conquering a man. If the object of desire refuses such a person, she is more likely to perceive it as a game and will only double her pressure. They really can’t understand that someone can simply refuse such a gorgeous beauty. But even if they understand over time, they begin to take cold revenge. A man who once gets involved with such a woman will experience thrills for a long time. And they understand this perfectly.
What men don’t like about Bitch:
Habits of a huntress. Nature intended it this way that a man should be the hunter and leader in a relationship. Of course, if he is a real man, and not a wimp, and that suits him quite well.
“play and quit” relationship style. The bitch is excited by the process of seduction itself, however, as soon as the animal falls into the trap, she begins to get bored and look for the next victim. Men who have been burned at least once in such relationships avoid Bitches.
Inability to love and extreme self-centeredness.
Minxes
Contrary to popular belief, men are not at all attracted to the image of a woman prone to promiscuity. They are immediately alarmed if a woman openly hints at sex on the first date. Yes, they will not play hard to get, and will gladly take the opportunity to have fun, but after that they will immediately cross such a person off the list of candidates for long-term employment, and even more so family relationships. The maximum that such a woman can hope for is sex without obligations and the opportunity to arrange her personal life. Moreover, as soon as he finds out that you have several such lovers, he will forget about you immediately and forever.
What doesn't suit you in Libertine:
Any man wants to feel the depravity and purity of his chosen one. Even if she had intimate relationships before. A woman, in the understanding of men, must behave with dignity and not be easily accessible.
Men show their possessiveness to the fullest, and Minxes are, by and large, a matter of public knowledge.
Selfish
They have a special “appetite” for generous and rich men. They, akin to Bitches, are selfish and arrogant, but if desired, they can easily transform into a soft and kind “kitty”. Selfish women believe that they are doing a man a huge favor by being with him. In their opinion, since he has such a dream woman, ideal in all respects, then he simply has to pay for it. Such a woman will say: “What did he think? ! Let him love you, carry him in your arms and spare no expense! “So a man will have to spend money on her every woman’s whim. And who enjoys this? Men, having learned about the selfish nature of such women, run away from them faster than the wind.
What notloveVToselfishno woman:
It is always unpleasant for men when a woman is more attracted to money than to its owner.
Men are afraid to start serious relationship with a woman who will certainly leave as soon as he goes bankrupt.
Indifferent
These women do not tend to show any emotions: joy, delight, passion. Their gaze is indifferent to everything around and to everyone nearby. No matter how much a man strives to show an indifferent woman any signs of attention, he will receive in return only the indifference of a complete pessimist. These people seem not to be happy with life in principle, constantly expecting something better and more. Some unreal prince on a golden horse. But he still doesn’t appear in sight.
What doesn't suit you VRindifferent:
Every man is pleased to evoke positive emotions in his beloved: sparkle in the eyes, smile, lust.
Particularly offensive to a man is the impassivity and indifference of a partner during lovemaking.
Mommy's Daughters
For such women, mother is the key to solving all life issues. As soon as Mommy's Daughter receives an offer from a man to go to the cinema, she will immediately run to her mother for advice. Mom, in turn, learns from her friends, distant and close relatives and neighbors all the ins and outs of this man. Then she decides whether this object is worthy of her precious daughter. Mom's Daughter always listens to her mother in everything, on a date she behaves according to her clear instructions, the same thing at home, at work, and when communicating with friends.
What notloveto MaminOuchDaughtere:
Men always strive to choose more self-sufficient and confident women.
For such women, the mother usually considers it the norm to teach life not only to her daughter, but also to her boyfriend.
Moms
These women are smug and domineering, they are used to treating men like children. Moreover, the children are not entirely healthy. They are overly protective, foresee their every move, try to manage them and resolve all issues for them. Sometimes this suits a man, because he can not work, lie on the couch all day and touch his beloved with just his appearance. But normal men Such women are not loved, shunned and even condemned.
What doesn't suit you in Mommies:
They are irritated by intrusive and not always appropriate care.
The man feels like he is being bought.
A man perceives such a woman as a mother, which results in a lack of sexual desire for her.
Men are afraid of this type of woman and try not to cross paths with them in life. And if they do collide, they strive to quickly break off all relations with them. Did you recognize yourself in any of them? Well, draw your own conclusions, and better yet, change before it’s too late.
The qualities that men value in women often have nothing to do with looks, bust size, or any other stereotype. There are at least 13 non-physical parameters that are more important for the stronger sex than a great physique, beautiful eyes and Hollywood smile. Every man would like to be with such women.
1. Self-confident.
There is nothing sexier than a woman who is comfortable in her own skin.
Many ladies ask their lovers questions like: “Does this skirt make me look fat?” Enough! Every man has his own idea of the ideal physique. And if he stays with his chosen one, it means he likes her for who she is. If a woman wants to change something about herself, go ahead, but she needs to do it for herself, not for others.
2. Is a good listener.
Most men appreciate women who can just sit and listen. Yes, it requires some patience, but the result is worth it. The ability to listen and really hear what the other person is saying is a demonstration of support, care and interest towards him. Not to mention, it dramatically increases the chances of reciprocity.
3. Enjoys gifts, but does not demand them.
5. Does not hesitate to ask for help.
Most women believe that men are people who hate doing housework or running errands. However, this is only true for those who have already entered into a long-term relationship.
If a woman approaches a lonely man and asks him to help her with a smile, he, in most cases, readily responds. Men really love women who ask for help. It makes them feel more masculine, gives them something to talk about, and awakens their conditioned protective instinct. And when a nice lady thanks a gentleman for his help with a flirtatious smile, there's a good chance he'll get over his embarrassment and ask for her phone number.
6. Has a sense of humor.
Guys like girls who laugh at their jokes and can joke back. A cheerful or flirtatious giggle can melt even the hardest and most courageous heart. That is why positive, albeit not very attractive in appearance, women always have many admirers, in contrast to gloomy and strict beauties. In fact, sincere and joyful laughter is one of the best aphrodisiacs.
7. Doesn't manipulate in relationships.
Men do not want to be subjected to any kind of manipulation. They don't want to read their partner's mind or try to interpret any of her signals. They don't want to see a spoiled little girl next to them. They do not want to bear the brunt of the blame for a failed relationship alone.
- tears;
- refusal of sex;
- hysterics;
- the requirement “if you love it, prove it!”
Here are the most common types of female manipulation.
However, before resorting to any of these “fail-safe” means, the lady should sit down and think: what if what she planned has a completely opposite result? What if the partner, frightened by the flow of tears or not wanting to guess about the reasons for the offense from the shards of broken dishes, simply leaves? Isn't the prospect of being alone scary? Forward to fulfilling your plans!
To build a wonderful relationship, a woman needs to learn to speak bluntly about what she wants or, conversely, does not want. This is a simple and honest way to interact with your loved one.
While you are still a girl, you should know about this. To know in order to change something or prevent it. To know that thunder doesn’t strike, so that later you don’t have to tell yourself, like, where were you before, why didn’t you tell, why didn’t you warn. I just want to bring it to your attention, and then it’s up to you whether to take it into account or not. So, what kind of women do men not like?
1. These are bitches.
Real bitches who just jump from one bed to another. You can call them differently, but you don’t want to pollute the airwaves. They want to conquer all men. They do not care: married man or not, they don’t care where, when or how much. They don’t care what people think about them, the main thing for them is not to miss the opportunity to just sleep, get their share of affection and sex, and the rest is a flood.
They are very sexy, attractive, but promiscuous in dating and relationships. Men fall for their charms, find a place and time, give everything that can be given, but they don’t marry such people. Although they are happy to tell their friends all the details of their adventure. Such women do not need love. Give them only sex. That's what they get.
If you want a long-term relationship and don’t want to be alone for the rest of your life, but all that’s on your mind is sex, then you should hit the brakes.
A short verse about this:
You are like everyone else, even worse than others,
Others do not have that deceitful appearance,
The only difference is their depravity
Not covered with something beautiful.
Any prostitute is more honest than you,
After all, it is given openly.
You swear your love without loving anyone,
And you laugh at a broken heart.
Your ideals are restaurant and wine,
You live for bed sports.
You're not a woman, just cheap trash
And even then, not first grade.
2. This is "mimosa".
Such a woman chooses a good, gentle, caring gardener with a fat wallet.
He is all at her feet: he cherishes, unwinds, protects, and then often runs away.
Such women love evenings by candlelight, constant flowers in a vase, declarations of love, albeit in memorized words, and tenderness. They are not even very interested in going to bed with their loved one. The main thing for them is courtship. It requires constant care, constant tension, without admitting that life is not only the joy of communication, which can be filled with various surprises. She is romantic and dreamy, but constant courtship can bore a man. This one will love a man, but with one condition. This is if he is always nice, always provides for her well, supports her high level life.
And if something goes wrong, then such a woman already turns into an evil, insidious, always offended, dissatisfied lady with everything, and the world is no longer kind to her.
This is already a completely helpless creature.
I’ll give you some advice: don’t judge men by these standards. And a big, fat wallet can lose weight. Yes, and the romance of men can fly away like a bird in autumn.
She was so pretty
That all men are passionate every time
Any order, any order from her
They rushed to do it vying with each other.
But the years passed, the fire of hair grew dim,
And a network of wrinkles has already appeared on the forehead.
And one day, wrinkling his nose in embarrassment,
She said, "I want peonies."
And suddenly there was a blow, no one flinched,
No one looked up at the Deity.
And only the husband muttered: “Now.”
He mumbled, but didn’t move.
Was it easy for her in her torment?
She, so accustomed to commanding everyone?
How important it is to remember your desires,
Don't forget your opportunities.
It’s good that at least there was a husband. It might not have existed at all.
Once upon a time there lived a Rose in a spring garden,
And everyone came to look at her beauty.
Proud, majestic, petals like wax.
The purple color of Rose simply burned in her eyes.
Fluffy, bright, she was a decoration of the garden.
And a lonely tulip grew nearby,
Simple, unnoticeable, he just sighed.
One day, unable to bear it, he said:
"Oh Rose, look at me, I'm very much in love.
Just give me your smile,
And I will be happy, believe and understand."
But Rose, looking at the flower with disgust,
She said, “No,” and wrinkled her forehead.
From such grief the tulip immediately withered.
I feel sorry for him, poor thing, he disappeared innocently.
Nature, apparently, was blind:
She did not combine beauty and kindness.
And in life, sometimes it happens so often,
God does not give us everything good.
(From an essay by a 9th grade student).
It is important to remember that you are not a purple rose that may never bloom.
3. "The navel of the earth."
Selfish natures, only for themselves and for themselves. She will not tolerate any objections. He will walk over corpses, but he will achieve his goal. Even when it’s “white” he will say that it’s “black”. And just try to open your mouth, it will immediately close. Men who stay with such women hate both them and themselves, lose their “I”, and become completely incapable of anything. Such women believe that the whole earth revolves around them. It's hard to live with people like that. She does not consider the opinions of others. She doesn't care about other people's opinions. The vixen is real. But she chose it herself. He was probably handsome or good in bed, or he loved him so much that he agreed to everything. And then I realized where I was, what hands they were holding. But it's too late.
A strong man will run away, a weak man will drag along his skirt all his life, cursing himself and her.
Give him freedom. Give him at least a word to say. Don't make a rag out of a man. Look at him, he's so unhappy with you.
Show your “I” at work, in the store, with your girlfriends, but with your beloved, be gentler. Have pity on the man!
Don't crush it with your fingernail. Don't make him a goat.
She was weak to the limit
And he looked after her and loved her.
Then, when she got tired of timidity,
She became strong in soul and body,
And then for some reason he cooled down towards her.
Oh, dear women! For the sake of happiness
Don't rush to this damned power!
(E. Asadov).
4. This is a "gray mouse".
So quiet, unnoticeable, ready to lie down in front of her husband, bowing to him in everything. She agrees with everything in advance, you don’t have to ask her opinion, she will always agree with her husband. She will endure everything. She will always be devoted to her owner. She is grateful to her husband for the fact that he chose her, or that he took her as his wife. Often this is forced (flying in full). And, afraid of losing her idol, she becomes even more of a nobody. She will always be happy with the thrown dice, and will drive herself more and more into bondage.
But husbands are not able to appreciate such devotion, since it is already his property, his slave. She put her dignity on the altar of love and became a victim of that same love.
I would like to advise: you don’t need to be a wuss. Otherwise, you will receive nothing but pity for you.
5. These are career women.
Rarely, but it happens. She is eager to fight, fights with everyone, bends over backwards to achieve a position, and her family will always remain in the background. They call her at any time of the day, ask for advice, wait for orders. And she, being so busy, won’t calm down. She needs it more than anyone. And she does this not for money, but for the sake of prestige, for the sake of her own self. She just wants to lead. She wants to always be on top. She wants to always be talked about, feared, she wants others to depend on her. The husband is nervous, but keeps quiet. Why interfere? You can’t argue with someone like that, she’ll press you so hard, she’ll scold you like that, and you won’t say a word. You will stand in front of the teacher like a schoolboy.
And in bed, such a woman can get annoying with her conversations about work.
Few people will like this. A man is a man. He wants to show his authority, but that was not the case. Often he remains in the family, but his soul is drawn to some simple woman who will be ready to listen to him, feed him like a human being and warm him up. This is where he will show himself.
Don't put your career ahead of your family. Let your husband have a headache about this.
6. This is the "huntress".
She is attractive, dresses beautifully, flirts, in other words, simply bewitches a man to her. There is only one goal: to get married soon. And so she seduced me, lured me into her network, stamped my passport, and that’s it. The goal has been achieved, you can relax. A man looks at her and hardly recognizes in her that charming former beauty whom she was not ashamed to show to her friends. She is sloppily dressed, unkempt, has a greasy robe of an indeterminate color, and often runs around the apartment in pantaloons. The nightie is like a sack, there are creases on the tights, and the man no longer sees anything sexy, nothing attractive in her. Yes, and she behaves like a market woman. In short, the woman stops taking care of herself, believing that she has already completed her task. And why should a poor man stare at a slob all his life? He will reach out to another, who will take the man away. And then the “hunter” will bite her elbows, but it’s too late, she missed the opportunity to carefree warm herself next to her chosen one.
A woman should always remain a woman. Have you stopped looking after yourself? That means she's old. You shouldn’t become an unsightly woman ahead of time. There are already plenty of them on the street.
7. This is “ice” or “cold like a snow queen.”
Usually this beautiful women, capable of seducing and pumping out everything they see fit. She will easily use sex for personal gain, easily manipulating men to her advantage. Such women are cruel and calculating. They cover up their coldness or frigidity under a mask of pretense, depicting wild delight in bed. But this is just a mask. She does not know how to love, she does not know how to enjoy love. She needs something else. Such women love only themselves. Only calculation: you - for me, I - for you.
Usually, such women are suitable only as mistresses.
But you can’t be like that forever?
8. This is "Mommy".
A good housewife, a good mother of children, an exemplary wife. She has everything in place, everything is placed on shelves in the right place. She manages to do everything: feed her, do laundry, and do homework with the children. But for some reason their husbands find affection on the side. No, they don’t leave completely, because in this house it’s dry and warm, there’s food on the table and the kids are growing up healthy. And in bed, the wife will always fulfill her marital duty. But he will fulfill it as a duty, as a necessity that cannot be avoided, because the family will not continue. She will forgive and tolerate any insults, she will tolerate her husband, even if he is not nice to her. If the family were normal, the children would be well-fed. But it pulls a man to the side, he wants love and sex, he wants someone to lie next to him for a reason, fulfilling his duties. Therefore, there is always a sweet and affectionate lover on the side. She will complement everything that is missing at home.
Leave everyday problems behind. Live for yourself, for love. Do not think that your husband has already known all the joys of love and stopped there. Or do you think that having you by his side is enough for him?
I think that every woman will draw conclusions. Everyone will understand what you cannot be if you dream of happiness. We can all adjust our behavior if we see fit. After all, each of us has our own shortcomings. But we rarely admit it.
Or maybe let's try to be like this:
Sit down to eat, half a piece.
He shouts: “Eat!”, I gave up, it’s arbitrariness.
She rattles pots, - Goddess,
Reads a book, sweeps the floor.
Walks barefoot into my jacket - dressed,
Or sings quietly in the morning.
Love? Yes, no, where is this from?
But he will leave, and I will die.